When someone is having thoughts of suicide, a psychiatric hospital should be a place where they are kept safe: it is the reason for they exist. Psychiatric hospitals must ensure their facilities provide no opportunity for patients to cause themselves harm when they are at risk of suicide. How can it be any other way? When a hospital fails in this duty and patients suffer an experienced suicide attorney can help families to pursue legal action to recover compensation for losses the facility’s carelessness causes. A patient has a right to safety; the patient’s family has a right to know their loved one is safe.

Besides civil action, regulators can, and should, also take action against hospitals that fail their patients. It is their job to protect us. When hospitals and regulators fail to protect us, it is the duty of juries to protect us—to make our communities safe.

Facilities providing mental healthcare are often state funded or receive federal funds through Medicaid and Medicare. States can threaten their funding, and the Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services can determine a facility should no longer continue to receive payments if it cannot provide safe patient care. Losing funding can have a major impact on whether the facility can continue operating.

Psychiatric Hospital Faces Loss of Funding

One facility at risk of losing its funding is Timberlawn Mental Health System, which is in Dallas. Officials at the facility were warned doorknobs in patient’s room might be used to hang themselves.  Despite the serious danger the door knobs presented, they were not replaced until February 19. This was two days after the first of safety inspections that occurred unannounced.

The door knobs were not the only problem. Inspections conducted by U.S. Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services (CMS) uncovered “numerous safety problems,” according to the Dallas News.

On February 17 of last year, federal inspectors indicated there were shortcomings at the facility that left patients at Timberlawn in “immediate jeopardy.” This included things like having plastic liners in garbage cans, and telephone and electrical cords that presented a risk to psychiatric patients. Immediate jeopardy is the most serious warning CMS issues.

While the facility submitted a plan in March to remedy the issues, the changes the hospital indicated it would make came too late for one patient.  A 37-year-old who had checked herself into the facility when struggling with a dissociative disorder had died by suicide in December. Her death took place a full five months after the initial warnings about the doorknobs were issued to the facility.

Suicide attorney Skip Simpson from the Law Offices of Skip Simpson is representing the family and called failing to change the doorknobs “completely reckless.”  The Dallas Morning News quoted Simpson: “This hospital needs to go ahead and put a sign up in front of their building that says ‘Not safe for suicidal patients.”

The hospital’s reckless behavior has had a real cost. While it may make changes now, they are being forced to do so due to the threat of lost funding, those changes should have been made early so the facility could have better fulfilled its basic obligation to keep patients safe.

It should not have taken a threat to close the facility for this hospital to provide a safe environment of care: a culture of safety. Plenty of patient safety rules, for many, many years, have required psychiatric facilities to be safe. The Joint Commission requires patient safety. Doesn’t it just make sense? Texans like rules. They teach their children rules. They teach their children when rules are broken there are consequences.

Sadly a family with their daughter in this facility suffered the biggest consequence. Now Timberlawn will pay the consequences. It is just what happens in Texas. We like rules and folks playing by the rules; nothing new all over America.

Another thing we teach our children: “when you break a rule and it hurts someone or property: you make it right.” My mom said “Skip, you broke the window—admit it and pay for it.” It is just what good citizens do; yes, corporate citizens too. It is just the simple truth.

Suicide – a global problem – is one of the leading causes of death worldwide. As Quartz reports, more than 800,000 people throughout the world die by suicide each year and many millions more people attempt suicide.

An experienced suicide attorney knows understanding the risk factors that can lead to suicide is vitally important to try to bring the death rate down. One of these risk factors relates to gender. In every country throughout the world, men are much more likely to die by suicide than women.

Men are at Greater Risk of Dying by Suicide in Every Country in the World

In the United States, 32,055 males died by suicide in 2013, the last official figures. 9,094 females died by suicide for same time period. There were 3.5 deaths by suicide for each female death by suicide. This discrepancy of male versus female suicide rates is even larger in some countries. For example, in Lithuania, 49.5 men out of every 100,000 die by suicide compared to 8.4 females.

There are many different factors that could help to explain why men are so much more likely to die by suicide. However, one medical professional from the University of Glasgow believes that a major contributing factor to the higher rates of male suicides is the phenomenon of social perfectionism.

Despite an increased focus on equality of genders, the majority of men still believe that they must provide for their families and will consider themselves failures if they cannot do so. The perceived pressure to provide for a family is outside of a man’s control – he believes – and may be a conscious or subconscious pressure, but it is present even in societies where significant progress has been made toward making the genders more equal. Studies as recent as 2014 show that men still think that others will view them negatively if they are not able to make a good living.

Women can also be social perfectionists, but evidence suggests that the phenomenon is not as pervasive among women and that the social perfectionism that men feel pressured to live up to is much more harmful. One expert from the University of Florida, for instance, indicates that while women generally think of themselves as women even if they do not live up to feminine ideals, a man who cannot provide may consider himself no longer to be a “man.”

Understanding this intuitive phenomenon can help prevent death by suicide among men. When men are experiencing periods of unemployment or are facing financial struggles, it will become even more important for family members and mental health professionals to be watchful for any signs of suicidal thoughts or behaviors. Men can and should be able to get help from mental health professionals in overcoming fear they will lose their manhood if they cannot earn a living as successfully as they had hoped. There is a catch: men are not as likely to seek any healthcare, let along mental health care because of stigma and macho attitudes.

A suicide attorney at the Law Offices of Skip Simpson can help. Call (214) 618-8222 or visit www.skipsimpson.com to schedule a free case consultation. Serving clients throughout the United States. 

After a young Texas teen died by suicide and his parents revealed he had been bullied, hundreds of supporters came out for a peaceful demonstration. The teen’s parents indicated that the bullying had gone on for weeks before the young man killed himself. The teen had obtained a gun from a friend, allegedly to protect himself and his family from the bullying occurring. His friend has now been arrested according to CBS Local, but the teen’s parents want the school to face accountability.

A suicide attorney knows that bullying is one top reason for teens to consider death by suicide. School officials claim that the district where the Texas teen had attended school is adamantly opposed to bullying. However, the supporters of the family of the teen who died want bullying to be discussed more openly and want stricter policies in place to protect young people.

Preventing Teen Death by Suicide Can Be Challenging

The school district insists that it did nothing wrong. The District stated that many interviews with students, counselors, and staff members had been conducted but that no prior reported incidents of bullying had preceded the teen’s death. Some bullying goes unreported or school officials may see bullying occur but not take formal steps to stop it.

School districts have a responsibility to their students, but there may be limited things the district can do to get kids to stop being mean or exclusionary to others. Young people should learn about the dangers of bullying from a young age and should be taught the behavior is unacceptable. These lessons must explained in a way that causes teens to understand and to respect their peers instead of subjecting anyone to bullying behavior.

An article on Palo Alto online describes how some California areas are responding to the risk of teen death by suicide following several recent deaths on Caltrain tracks. A Mental Health Association held a round-table discussion on ways to prevent death by suicide among youth, recognizing there are no easy fixes to the problem.

One pilot program being used is called Fire Within. Fire Within uses entrepreneurship and the support of teen peers to help students be more open about how they are feeling and to get a better understanding of the root causes of depression and teen suicide. The program involves peers talking to each other about depression and encourages teens to seek emotional support from each other in high stress environments.

The pilot program is being tried because of a belief that what schools have done so far to address the issues of bullying and teen death by suicide have not been working. There is no quick or easy solution to help kids cope with their depression or to stop bullying behaviors, but hopefully programs like this could be a step in the right direction.

A suicide attorney at the Law Offices of Skip Simpson can help. Call (214) 618-8222 or visit http://www.skipsimpson.com to schedule a free case consultation.

Suicide attorney Skip Simpson has provided legal representation to many families whose loved ones have died by suicide because of the failures of mental health professionals to provide appropriate care. Simpson believes – relating to suicide prevention – the mental health care system is broken and that implementing best practices  for suicide risk assessment would help to save thousands of lives every year. His goal is not to threaten care providers with lawsuits, but instead is to help secure compensation for victims and to help ensure that mental health professionals are as effective in preventing unnecessary deaths.

As one of the leading experts nationwide on the legal aspects of suicide resulting from the negligence of mental health providers, Simpson was recently asked to speak at a training seminar for mental health service professionals. The seminar was held in late February at the University of Denver. Mr. Simpson was invited to speak about how best practices for suicide prevention treatment can be implemented by health care providers to reduce risk and provide legal protections.

Simpson Talks to Mental Health Professionals About Treating At-Risk patients

The training seminar was attended by psychology students, psychiatrists, and psychologists, all of whom could treat patients who are at risk for an attempted suicide. The conference was called the Elevating the Conversation Conference. Simpson was asked to speak to the attendees about how to avoid suicide malpractice lawsuits while better caring for the suicidal patient.

Simpson cautioned providers that their care decisions should not be made based on a fear of being sued, as focusing on lawsuits could end up taking the attention off the patient. Providers must devote their full energy to focusing on meeting the needs of at-risk clients and identifying when someone may consider death by suicide.

Simpson also encouraged providers to avoid a “checklist mentality,” and to really hear what patients are saying. Insincere attitudes can be recognized by patients and doctors who focus on ticking off boxes of things they need to do to prevent lawsuits will not be effective at getting through to people who need help.

Over 100 people die by suicide daily in the United States, so any failure of the psychiatric care system can be very dangerous. Simpson believes there is a need for meaningful systematic change, especially since every suicide in a system should be preventable with the right mental health care. During the training seminar, Simpson discussed some of the best practices that could be followed for medical professionals to ensure they are following the recommended guidelines for suicide prevention.

Simpson also advised therapists and counselors to ensure they are documenting everything. The quality of documentation can mean the difference between being sued when a patient dies by suicide and not being sued.

If providers follow these recommendations and try to effectively manage suicide risk assessment, perhaps more deaths by suicide will be prevented.

A suicide attorney at the Law Offices of Skip Simpson can help. Call (214) 618-8222 or visit http://www.skipsimpson.com to schedule a free case consultation.

NBC News anchor Brian Williams has been suspended for six months without pay because of exaggerating stories regarding the potential danger he was in while reporting from disaster-afflicted regions. When it finally came to light remarks he had told were not accurate, some memory experts offered explanations other than deliberate misstatements by Mr. Williams. The possible argument made to justify his comments: the complexity of memory and how memory works.

Mr. Simpson, a lawyer well versed in the dangers of false memories, states “Mr. Williams, the NBC news department, and the nation all may believe Mr. Williams has deliberately lied when in fact Mr. Williams may simply have had confabulated memories. Confabulated memory is the production of fabricated, distorted or misinterpreted memories about oneself or his or her environment, without the conscious intention to deceive. I sincerely hope the possibility of a confabulated memory is carefully considered rather than a rush to condemn a good man.”   Simpson adds “there are techniques to employ to determine whether or not the Brian William’s comments are more likely confabulations or deliberate misstatements.   The pile on by other networks is self-serving and not informative. This entire William’s story can be one where the public is educated about the false memory controversy; a subject which major mental health organizations warned about in the 90’s.”

A mental health malpractice lawyer knows that false memories are a controversial issue and one that becomes a major cause for concern when people’s testimony of terrible crimes is used to secure a conviction in court. It is important to understand the complexities of false memories and the truth behind how memories work to develop a better understanding of why certain types of counseling may be problematic.

False Memories a Complex Subject

The Boston Globe reports on how memories change over time to create a story that makes sense based on your current world. Some experts believe that memories often provide false accounts of events that may have occurred, or provide “at best, semi-accurate records of what we experience.”

Research supports the theory that memory is fallible. Last year, a study published in the Journal of Neuroscience involved 17 participants looking at a computer screen at an object. The object was then moved to a different place in the same background. The participants were then asked to put the object back to where it had originally been, and they always put it closer to where it was in the second picture. This suggests the second picture had repealed the old one in their minds.

If the brain can create incorrect memories just by looking at different pictures, this means there is an even bigger risk that the brain will create false or incorrect memories when faced with explicit suggestions. This is part of what made Repressed Memory Therapy dangerous and is part of what makes theophostic counseling dangerous.

Repressed memory therapy (RMT) is a field of psychotherapy that assumes issues like insomnia, anxiety, bulimia and other related problems are caused by memories of child abuse that have been repressed. Techniques like hypnosis, guided imagery or other trance like states are used to help people “recover” their memories of abuse that their subconscious may have allegedly buried. In the last four decades however, repressed memory therapy was found to have caused many individuals to make false accusations of sexual and or satanic abuse that didn’t occur. RMT is not recommended by mental health professionals because of the risks of inadvertently planting false memories.

Theophostic counseling was developed in the 1990s and is also aimed at helping people to identify underlying causes of ongoing emotional pain and ongoing causes of current sins. The premise is that everyone is emotionally wounded because of lies the memory creates about past experiences and everyone must seek to have hearts and minds healed by Jesus. There are 14 principles of theophostic counseling, including finding renewal for the past to redeem the present.  However, many critics believe this process of dealing with past experiences is just a form of repressed memory therapy by another name.

If counselors use techniques like RMT or theophostic counseling and people falsely remember things like abuse, mental health counselors who participate in these widely-criticized forms of psychotherapy can sometimes be held liable for the consequences.

A psychiatric malpractice attorney at the Law Offices of Skip Simpson can help. Call (214) 618-8222 or visit http://www.skipsimpson.com to schedule a free case consultation.

In 2013, there was a significant increase in the number of young people who used a firearm to die by suicide. Most of the instances in which a young person died by suicide using a gun involved a family member’s firearm.

A suicide attorney knows that many people who are considering death by suicide will use a firearm when available. This is one reason why it is so important for mental health counselors and professionals to be aware of the signs of suicide and to take action. Family members who are warned that a loved one is considering death by suicide can take extra precautions with any weapons in their home.

More Deaths By Suicide Involve Firearm Use

According to NBC News, the number of teens who died by suicide involving a firearm reached a 12 year high. An estimated 876 young people between the ages of 10 and 19 took their lives using firearms.

This is the third straight year in which the number of young people who chose this method to die by suicide has increased. In approximately 82 percent of situations where a young person died by suicide involving a firearm, the gun belonged to a parent or to another family member.

The increase comes at the same time as a general spike in the suicide rate for teens. Death by suicide is now the second leading cause of teen fatalities, with only motor vehicle accidents causing more fatalities. From 2007 to 2013, the overall rate of suicide among young people between the ages of 10 and 19 increased by as much as 34 percent.

Some advocates of stricter weapons laws argue that guns in the home increase the chances that a child will be shot and killed. A study published in the Annals of Internal Medicine also asserts that having access to guns increases the risk of death by suicide and Fox News indicated that guns in the home could cause as much as a three-fold increase in the risk of death by suicide.

Access to firearms may result in a high number of deaths by suicide not just because people who are considering suicide may find it easier if a gun is available, but also because guns tend to be a speedy method of suicide as compared to other things like taking pills. There is less opportunity for help to come or for a young person to change his mind when a gun is used in an attempt to die by suicide.

Health care professionals need to carefully monitor young people, and people of all ages, for risks of suicidal tendencies. If a young person seems especially at risk of suicide, it becomes important to discuss options with family about restricting access to weapons as well as about getting appropriate care.

A suicide attorney at the Law Offices of Skip Simpson can help. Call (214) 618-8222 or visit http://www.skipsimpson.com to schedule a free case consultation.

Transgender teens in Texas throughout the United States are at significantly greater risk of death by suicide. In fact, a 2011 study of 6,450 people published by the National Transgender Discrimination Survey revealed that as many as 41 percent of gender nonconforming individuals tried to die by suicide. A suicide attorney in Texas knows that family support can help bring down the suicide death rates among this specific demographic, but the risk of suicidal ideation and death by suicide still remains higher than the general population.

Transgender individuals may be especially vulnerable as teenagers, a time when their bodies will start changing in ways they do not want it to and a time when they may be forced to cope with cruelty from peers. Parents and caregivers can sometimes help kids through this difficult time period by providing children with the counseling they need to manage their feelings. However, counselors need to be trained, qualified and capable of recognizing when someone is having thoughts of suicide so appropriate action can be taken to prevent a tragedy from occurring.

Counselors Could Help to Save the Lives of Those Considering Death by Suicide

The recent suicide of an Ohio teenager has brought the issue of transgender teen suicide to the forefront, with many mainstream news media publications covering the story and with vocal groups of people actually condemning the parents of the teen who was killed.

The death was announced first by the child’s mother as the death of her “son.” The child was anatomically male but the child believed that this was the inappropriate gender. Before dying by suicide by jumping in front of a large truck, the teen had posted a suicide note that would publish after her death. The note has been reposted hundreds of times in newspapers and across websites. In it, the teen explained feeling depression at the idea of not being able to transition or ever find love. The teen also exhibited frustration at what she perceived to be the lack of support from her parents.

The teen’s mother has given conflicting accounts of what occurred, denying much of what was in the suicide note, according to CNN.  Because there are two sides to every story, it is not clear exactly how much information published in the suicide note was a 100 percent accurate depiction of the relationship between the teen and her parents. As we all know perceptions trump reality. Themes that the note did repeatedly mention, however, involved the teen’s frustration before her suicide about only being taken to religious counselors who were judgmental and not supportive of someone with gender identity issues.

If this is in fact the case, then these counselors may not have done their jobs and may have let their patient down in important ways. Whether a mental health counselor agrees with a person’s lifestyle or not, it is not the job of the counselor to judge, nor fail to properly assess this high risk group for suicide. This is true whether the patient is experiencing a gender identity crisis, depression or has other types of mental health concerns. A qualified counselor will listen and provide appropriate therapy. A qualified counselor should also be able to recognize when someone is depressed to the point of contemplating suicide so that the counselor can get the patient help.

A suicide attorney at the Law Offices of Skip Simpson can help. Call (214) 618-8222 or visit www.skipsimpson.com to schedule a free case consultation.

A charity called Samaritans released an app at the end of October that was designed to help prevent death by suicide. The app included a specially designed algorithm that was intended to identify key words and phrases that might suggest someone was having thoughts of suicide. People who signed up for the app would be notified if someone that they were following was posting troubling phrases on Twitter that could suggest a risk of suicide.

The app has since been pulled from the market because of concerns about privacy and worries that it might make things worse for those who are experiencing mental health issues. While this particular app may not have been the best approach to take to helping to prevent suicide, it does raise questions about how technology could be used to help people who are having a hard time.

Identifying suicidal risk factors can be a difficult thing to do without some basic training. I recommend visiting the QPR Institute online. QPR (Question, Persuade, and Refer) Gatekeeper Training for Suicide is a brief educational program designed to teach “gatekeepers”–those who are strategically positioned to recognize and refer someone at risk of suicide (e.g., parents, friends, neighbors, teachers, coaches, caseworkers, police officers)–the warning signs of a suicide crisis and how to respond by following three steps:

Trained mental health professionals and medical care providers should be in the best position to provide appropriate assistance. Unfortunately, a suicide attorney knows that this does not always work and medical professionals sometimes fail to do their job. “At times they simply don’t know what they don’t know because their professional training failed them” says Skip Simpson. Professional organizations like the American Association of Suicidology are busy trying to fix the poor clinician training in the United States. Another hard charging organization, the Suicide Prevention Resource Center (SPRC), is trying to get medical schools and graduate programs to focus on properly training their students in suicide prevention. The SPRC is moving mountains in suicide prevention.

QPR training will get folks at suicide risk to the proper resource; SPRC is attempting to make sure those resources know what they are doing and then do it properly. If clinicians fail to apply the proper standard of care, then they face a review by Skip Simpson and his colleagues across the United States.

Technological Tools in the Fight to Prevent Death by Suicide

The Samaritan app analyzed people’s Twitter accounts to find key phrases that could potentially suggest a person was considering death by suicide. Some of the phrases that the app looked for included things like “help me,” “need someone to talk to,” “hate myself,” “depressed,” and “tired of being alone.”

When these phrases were identified, followers of the person who was making the tweets would be alerted via email. Only people who had signed up for the service would get the email alerts. The app also monitored only Tweets that were publicly available and sent them only to individuals who were already following the tweeting person.

There were concerns, however, that stalkers and bullies could potentially sign up for the service. This would give them the opportunity to use the information to increase their abusive behavior at a time when their victims were especially vulnerable. Another possible issue is that the app could result in false positives, causing needless concern and making people less likely to reach out when they are feeling down.

The app has been removed from the market in response to the concerns. However, there are other online tools that are still used to help in the fight against suicide. Good Therapy, for example, has provided a list of the top 10 websites on the Internet that can help people who are having thoughts of suicide or who want to help others who are struggling. Lifeline Chat also makes it possible for people to reach out and talk to someone online if they are depressed or despairing and having thoughts of suicide.

So, while technology might continue to assist in the fight, nothing can replace human contact, genuine concern, and the help of medical professionals trained to deal with victims struggling with thoughts of suicide. Throughout the holidays, we can each do our part to reach out and help those struggling to cope through what for many is the most difficult time of the year.

A suicide attorney at the Law Offices of Skip Simpson can help. Call (214) 618-8222 or visit http://www.skipsimpson.com to schedule a free case consultation.

Nearly  everyone has heard about the importance of talking about your problems and not keeping feelings bottled up. A new study in Lancet Psychiatry finds that talking to others – specifically, therapists – can actually save lives. People who have attempted suicide can benefit from “talk therapy,” another name for psychotherapy. Repeat suicide attempts and deaths by suicide were about 25 percent lower among a group of Danish people who underwent voluntary short-term psychosocial counseling after a suicide attempt, according to the study.

Researchers from Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health examined Danish health data from about 65,000 people who attempted suicide between Jan. 1, 1992, and Dec. 31, 2010. They looked at 5,678 people from that group who received sessions of talk therapy at one of Denmark’s eight suicide prevention clinics. Then they compared their outcomes over time with more than 17,000 other people who attempted suicide and who looked similar on other factors but had not gone for treatment afterward. Analyzing the data after a 20-year follow-up, researchers found the people who received talk therapy  were less likely to attempt suicide than people who did not receive the therapy.  Those who received psychotherapy repeated acts of self-harm less frequently and had a lower risk of death by suicide (or any cause) than those in the study who did not receive the therapy.

First-Of-Its-Kind Study Supports Benefits of Psychotherapy in Suicide Prevention

Suicide attorneys understand that it’s no surprise that counseling people with suicidal thoughts will help save lives.  But up until now, there has not been a lot of research to support whether a specific treatment is working. It’s a difficult subject to analyze, according to the study’s authors, because it’s not ethical to conduct a randomized study where some people get suicide prevention therapy while others don’t. In Denmark, the suicide prevention clinics were rolled out slowly and participation in the study was voluntary. Researchers say the large-scale study is the first of its kind to offer evidence that talk therapy can decrease the number of deaths by suicide.

Unfortunately, we know that many licensed mental health professionals in the United States lack proper training to help people who are at risk. They sometimes fail to offer the talk therapy – or other types of treatment – that can save lives. That’s why families whose loved ones died by suicide need the help of experienced attorneys who know what’s required to hold mental health providers accountable.

The new study was detailed in many publications, including a report in Time on Nov. 24, 2014. Quoting researchers, Time stated: “People who present with deliberate self-harm constitute a high-risk group for later suicidal behavior and fatal outcomes, so preventive efforts are important; yet, implemented specialized support after self-harm is rare.”

In  Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health news release about the findings, Annette Erlangsen, DPH, an adjunct associate professor in the Department of Mental Health, stated: “We know that people who have attempted suicide are a high-risk population and that we need to help them. However, we did not know what would be effective in terms of treatment. Now we have evidence that psychosocial treatment – which provides support, not medication – is able to prevent suicide in a group at high risk of dying by suicide.”

According to the news release, researchers suggest broadly implementing therapy programs for people who have attempted suicide in the past.

We have no doubt that there’s room for improvement when it comes to helping people who have made attempts at suicide or who have suicidal thoughts. We hope this new study will lead to some meaningful changes.

A suicide attorney at the Law Offices of Skip Simpson can help. Call (214) 618-8222 or visit http://www.skipsimpson.com to schedule a free case consultation.

Understanding risk factors for suicide is essential to preventing death by suicide. Updated research suggests that one potential risk factor frequently overlooked is a tendency toward perfectionism. Individuals, families of perfectionists and mental health professionals need to be aware that an overwhelming drive to be the best at everything can be a potential mental health issue that increases the risk of death by suicide. A suicide attorney should be consulted if mental health experts miss the signs and a person attempts to die by suicide.

Perfectionism is a Risk Factor for Death by Suicide

Perfectionism is generally defined as a need to either be perfect or to appear perfect. Unfortunately, as a new article in the Science of Us indicates, “the average person has very little understanding or awareness of how destructive perfectionism can be.”

Perfectionists frequently feel as though they are impostors putting on a mask of having it altogether. When this facade collapses, it can be devastating. For example, in a 2007 study, researchers interviewed friends and family members of people who had recently died by suicide. With no prompting, more than half of the people who had lost their lives were described by their family members as “perfectionists.”

A British study had similar results. Researchers looked at 20 students who had died by suicide. A total of 11 out of the 20 were described by people who knew them as being afraid to fail.

Yet another study of 33 boys and young men who had taken their lives were also described by their parents as having placed “exceedingly high” demands and expectations on themselves.

Unfortunately, there are high rates of death by suicide among people who are perfectionists because many people set impossibly high standards for themselves that they cannot possibly meet. They may then feel let down or disappointed when they are unable to meet the expectations that they have set.

The link between suicide and perfectionism have been largely misunderstood and overlooked, in large part because perfectionists don’t want people to know they are suffering. A person who is a perfectionist will try to paint a facade of keeping everything together, and admitting to thoughts of suicide will not typically fit in with the image that they are trying to present. Family members and loved ones may not even be aware of the fact that the perfectionist is experiencing any type of depression, as “perfectionism might not only be driving suicidal impulses, it could also be simultaneously masking them.”

Perfectionists are advised to aim the trait outside of themselves whenever possible to avoid some of the downsides of perfectionism. Volunteering and doing things for others could help to alleviate some of the pressures that are associated with perfectionism. For parents whose kids are perfectionists, sharing stories of setbacks and failures could also help to make a big difference.

Recognizing the potential for suicide associated with perfectionism is an important first step in being able to recognize signs of a problem and prevent a death from occurring.

A suicide attorney at the Law Offices of Skip Simpson can help. Call (214) 618-8222 or visit http://www.skipsimpson.com to schedule a free case consultation.